Hi

This is my first post, i found a pair knickers in my husband's van yesterday when i confronted him he told me that he found them "yes right" My husband had an affair about four years ago and i for give him and trusted him.Untill this can someone please tell me is the saying true once a cheat all ways a cheat?

Giiiiirrrlfriend...throw the bum out. You are absolutely right. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Trust me, he was waiting for stuff to calm down a bit, and now that they have, I'm sure he's back to his old tricks. He'll give you all types of excuses, but tell him to save the drama for his mama!

Men are always game for uncharted punani. Today it's knickers, tomorow, it will be a panty or a bra! If you have kids, take them and run!

Thanks for your quick replies,

 I'm waiting for him to come in from work i am so nervous and haven't eating all day. What am i going to do?????????. I'll keep you's posted and tell you tomorrow.

Oh yes he's always get's plenty of sex, So my cooking must be really bad "Ha

Yes Katalina...he is cheating.

Many of us men are like explorers; we must discover new territories to plant our flag pole.

Besides it is only one life yet it can be a long one.  One person is just not enough.

Katalina- do you and your sanity a favor...forgive the jerk for your sake and move on. Don't stick around for money, your kids, or any other excuse.

If you do, then you're just giving this guy another green light to go on and cheat. 

And by the way- if you believe anything pertaining to fidelity and respect that N**er says- then maybe you SHOULD stick with your husband, only a fool would stay where they aren't wanted.

Only a selfish bastard would believe the idea one person is just not enough. You're living up to your name N**er.

Yeah, what neg said!!