wow, I bumped into this site while doing research to start a new French Carribean site, I love this little place, it's comfortable just like my little Haiti...anyway, I am born Haitian and love it so much that I refuse after 16 years in this country to become a citizen so you can imagine how much it hurts me to hear stories like this...I am 25 and have lived alot of different places in the U.S. I lived in Connecticut once in my life where it was all white and lived in Ny/Nj in hispanic and black neighborhoods so I have seen and heard it all...
My last address was in a all hispanic section of Newark, NJ called Forest Hills where I became like a brother to a group of Dominicans and that's when I learned so much about Dominicans and their republic. I never even knew the place existed when i was in Haiti for whatever reason. I found out how much when we are face to face we get along better then blood brothers yet when we dont know about one another we think the worst of either sides. I have to admitt from my experience with Dominicans I think that most of them if not all are really ashamed of their blacknest. I had a friend they called Chocolatay who is very dark and he even acts like it's a curse god put on him to be that complexion. Aside from that, I love them people very much and they love me so much until this day after 2 years apart not a week go by we dont find a way to hang out. I dont know if after meeting me they still think negative of Haitians, but I do know that the only way we can see the beaty in each other is if we forget what we are thought and interract with one another.
Dominican people are one of my favorite people in the world now that I got to know them face to face. Love them so much I cant stop watching Shaft and laughing at Peoples Hernandez...if you are Haitian reach out and touch a Dominican and if you are Dominican reach out and touch a Haitian, you will be suprised at the similarities we possess. As for being ashamed of our African heritage or to be black, that I think Dominicans and even alot of Haitians learned from Europeans. How can a Dominican be ashamed of his African heritage, it's all over the music. If the poster of this is reading, tell your father if he's ashamed of Africa never to play Merengue again because those are African beats that he's bopping to. Europeans never mastered the Tambota, so how can he say he's not of African descent?
Keep researching and learning about cultures, you will be a bright young man, I just started doing what you doing and I'm 25. If you need any help let me know, I am always open to cultural explorations. email me: johnyjacques@msn.com |