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Message posted by Guest on February-13-2004 at 11:25pm - IP Logged
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HEY PASCAL

YOU SHOULD GIVE PEOPLE THE OPTIONS TO EITHER  WINDOWS MEDIA AND REAL PLAYER TO LISTEN TO THE SONGS


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Do you know waht bads for sure will be participating for this carnaval in Haiti???

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 dear pascal the thing that interest me to u something so how are i wanna know if you  have a girlfriend please wrote me back soon

 

sincerely

 

your sexy vanessa


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Mezanmi!

Vanessa,

You want to know if I have a girlfriend? Does this mean you want to be my boubout? Gad on koze! I'm waiting for your response so please 'wrote' me back soon too!



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Pascal,

mwen te nan line avan ou. You're after me.


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Quote: Originally posted by NegNwe on February-13-2004
Son, I am maaaaad dark........and LOVELY! Proud of it too. So any bourgeois elite who's ready to diss better take two giant steps back!


sorry to interrupt and be off topic but a friend of mine made me think about something the other day...she says that us black people always have to big up our status  (she's Jamaican so sorry for the slang) because we have to say things to make ourselves beleive we are beautiful with our complexions instead of just letting it be a natural feeling...in other words, we have to say things like "dark and lovely" or "black is beautiful" or even "the darker the berry...." all this is to make ourselves feel good...she said, if that's the case why do we feel compelled to advertise that?

I am black as black can be...so if someone ask me if I am dark, I say yes, very dark...and I might even throw a saying in there to depending how i feel, but why?...dont I beleive it? then why must I? why do we have the instinct to? is it because we have been put down all our western existance that we fight the thought that "black isn't beautiful" by making those statements?

someone asked negnwe if he was dark, he said yes, but went into a defensive mode right away by broadcasting that his darkness makes him lovely and then something about elite wanna diss...my question is, why does he feel compelled to say all that rather then just answering the question?

dont bite my head off, it's just a thought


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Quote: Originally posted by Ape_man on February-20-2004

...someone asked negnwe if he was dark, he said yes, but went into a defensive mode right away by broadcasting that his darkness makes him lovely and then something about elite wanna diss...my question is, why does he feel compelled to say all that rather then just answering the question?

dont bite my head off, it's just a thought


Ape Man,

It's difficult to not bite your head off when you ask questions with obvious answers. Among black people living in western countries, blackness (or darkness) is usually equated to ugliness due to the western standards of beuty imposed on us. That's why dark skin folks like myself feel compelled to get defensive when our skin color is discussed.

Growing up, I remember hearing girls say things like 'He's real cute, but he's too dark..." Growing up in the U.S., I automatically developed this defense mechanism to show such shallow people how I feel about myself. People don't love people who don't love themselves.

Epi dats it!



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NegNwe

You guys need to move WEST... Darker the Sexier out here!

I do also get definsive with the Color talk... I'm as white as they get next to translucent.



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Ape_man you bring some heated topic to the table.  From reading some of your post, I can say I agree with a lot of your views but some them leave me wondering if your just looking for a fight.



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actually to answer everyone I am not looking for a fight...I dont look for fights...what I look for is opinions...I learn from hearing people...if you check the things you guys chew me up for, you will see I put myself in the equation...

I am very dark, very dark and I think I did say in there that I to, when asked if I am dark will make a comment letting the person know that my darkness is beautiful...I wanted to know what makes this a natural instinct amongst us...that's all...I wanted to see if perhaps negwe and I shared the same views on this...and it looks as if we do...same reasons exactly...that's how I learn see, now I know that it's not just me that does it for that reason....

Am, I know alot of white people that when around us at least, do the same thing...they will get defensive about their color and will make remarks like we do as if to say "hey I am white, but dont outcast me, I am beautiful to" i like that because it shows that they truly do see that black is indeed beautiful...


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