PEOPLE I REALLY THOUGHT WERE MY FREINDS WERE REALLY SNAKES ONE OF MY BEST FREINDS THAT I TOOK LIKE A BROTHER HATES ME BECAUSE HIS GIRL FREIND LIKE ME ALOT ....ME AND HIS GIRL WERE TIGHT THE FACT SHE HAD A BABY BY HIM AND HE WASENT THERE FOR HER OR THE BABY ..CAUSE ME TO HELP HER ALOT WITH WHATEVER SHE WANTED WE GOT CLOSER AND CLOSER THEN SHE FELT GOOD ABOUT ME ALWAYZ BEING THERE I LIKED HER ALOT TO ...HE WOULD ALWAYZ CHEAT AND HIT HER CAUSING HER TO LIKE ME MORE ...ON MY FREINDS BIRTHDAY WE RENTED A HOTEL AND GOT KINDA DRUNK WE HAD  A FEW FEMALEZ OVER AND ENDED UP HAVING SEX WITH THE FEMALES

REMEMBERING THE FACT THAT ME AND HIS GIRL ALWAYZ TALKED BAD ABOUT HIM CHEATING  MADE ME FEEL VERY BAD  AND I WAS FILLED WITH GUILT THAT I WAS THERE WHEN HE CHEATED ON HIS BIRTHDAY AND ACTUALLY HAD SEX WITH THE GIRLS ALSO I WANTED TO TELL HER BUT DIDENT KNO HOW TO..AND MY FREIND HATED THE FACT ME AND HIS GIRL WERE SO CLOSE SO HE WENT AND TOLD HER  AND KNO SHE LOOKS AT ME LIKE EVERYOTHER GUY NOW AND PROBALLY HATES ME.. MY FREIND SAID HE DONT WANT TO CHILL WITH ME ANYMORE AND WANTS ME TO STAY AWAY FROM HIS GIRL CAUSE SHE CONFESSED TO HIM THAT SHE LIKES ME ALOT AND HAS FEELINGS FOR ME NOW IM FEELING CONFUSED IN THIS SITUATION ANY ADVICE ANYONE COULD GIVE ME?????

BELLE_TIGASON18

LOL...LOL  Belle_Tigason18; that is a lot of drama at your young age bro.

It all comes down to respecting boundaries; few people know how to do that.  At your age you have not yet learned how to be a friend or a lover, so you are all over the map with tangled emotions.

I am sure you already know that it is not wise to mix being drunk and having sex...etc

My advice, walk away from this situation, you cannot win.  You are the third wheel and you are complicating the situation.  Find new friends and interests, find excuses not to hang with either one of them until they get the message.  Stay cordial, no need for emotional outbursts.

I know you will ignore  any advice we give you in this forum and will do whatever your young heart desires. That is perfectly normal and is part of the growing and learning process.  Just be careful and always think of the future.

By the way, how is school going?  Any plans for college?

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