Quote: Originally posted by CheminFlambert on September-30-2003

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... Ou pa bezwen pale konsa de yon neg ou pa konnen. ..

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Bon si'm resi meet mesye George, map tre kontan.  Antouka, kom mwen pa di anyen de kote ou pran kante mwen pa we kote mwen "degrade" ou la.  Ou we yon neg ap di yon bagay nan yon post epi'w santi li pa bon. Rather then speak about what he said and why you find it wrong, you throw in an insult based on kante. That pretty much shows an example of how so many black women do not care about the status of black men. Sure, you can talk about his manners because that is what you don't agree with. So criticize him based on that. You had to throw in the kante thing as if he is not good enough because he is in St.Maartan? Koman, pa ka gen bon neg ayisien ki soti nan lot kote ke etazini ou byen kanada? Se sa map eseye motre'w la wi.  There are Haitian women that will make fun of a Haitian man's shoes, shirt, hair, face, memsi li gen bon manye and is a nice guy. So this right here is an example to trini love of what Haitian women do wrong.  Se rezon anpil fanm ayisien ap pran zoklo nan men neg ayisien mezanmi. The men feel inferior because they feel that the women do not respect them if they do not keep them in check. All I know is si se konsa fanm ayisien ye yap mouri ret tann bonn neg. Antouka, that kante thing was uncalled for..the guy sounded rediculous but that had nothing to do with a refugee fleeing poverty. 

I THINK HAITIAN MAN ARE PIGS, BUT THE ONLY GOOD THING ABOUT THEM IS NOTHING. YES I'M HAITIAN I WAS BORN IN BROOKLYN,BUT I LIVED IN HAITY FOR 11YEARS

 All men are the same regardless if they are from Haiti, Trinidad, Jamaica, America or (WHAT THE FUC_ EVER)!!!!

 Some are "damn good" in bed while others are horrible !!!!!!!

 Some are wonderful Fathers, Husbands, Friends, Lovers, Brothers, Uncles, Granddad's!!

While some are just good for nothing!!!!  

 Just because someone has a terrible experience with a person from a certain country doesn't mean that you'll have the same bad experience with the next relationship.

Did you ever think that maybe the problem is with yourself???????  

GET A MIRROR!!!!

I have nothing but bad experience with Haitian, but i must tell you i still LOVE them like crazy.  I believe it's the individual that i've been with, most of the time we don't have the same interest, we have personality conflict.  I myself could be a though cookie to deal with so it's not always the men fault.  I know i'll will find one just for me where we could compromise and understand each other.

In all, Haitian men are wonderful.  No matter their background, the kind of job they hold, you just have to find your match.

Tijou,

Thank you. Finally some clarity.